• Are you a starchild? 8 features!

    Are you a starchild? 8 features!

    Starseed Meaning

    A starchild/starseed is a New Age Childr. These are children (and adults) with talents and characteristics that do not fit into current education. As a result, they often run into problems. They need something else.

    A starchild/starseed has a great inner wisdom that is not recognized as such by the environment. Often the starchild/starseed is even perceived as a problem. 

    Starchildren are not the only New Age children. There are also:

    • Indigo children
    • Crystal children
    • Rainbow kids
    • Children from another cosmos

    Although our origin (source of love) is all the same, these qualities are portrayed differently by New Age children. Understanding the differences between New Age children helps to understand and solve problems these children have.

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    A starchild and peace

    A starchild lives from the energy of unconditional love and is a peace worker. A starchild has been on earth many times to spread the energy of love and wisdom. From 1980 onwards a new wave of Starchildren has come to earth who are ‘preparing’ the earth for a new generation of starchildren who will bring even more sensitivity and wisdom.

    The energy on earth is now so far that the first of these starchildren have been born. When they are optimally attuned to their own energy, starchildren know exactly how they can use their qualities to soften the energy of the environment.

    Indigo, Rainbow or Crystal children do this too, but use their energy in a different way. Starchildren often see with sorrow that the environment is not yet ready for a change to more love.

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    Where does a Starchild come from?

    A starchild comes from stars/planets that lie far in space and that we cannot (yet) observe with our telescopes. The vibration (the form of love and wisdom) is very high there. They live there in unity with the environment, the other and do not know duality as we know it here.

    Before a starchild comes to earth, they had come together with other starchildren on the pink planet of love. The connection between the starchildren is so strong that they can create new forms of love together in unity.

    How does a Starchild come to earth?

    A starship is such a form of love and consists of materials that are not (yet) known on earth. Creation happens with all of us in unity. A starship consists of energetic elements that are made in love and connection. This creates a living starship of energetic ‘matter’. With this vehicle of love they have come to earth.

    The propulsion and control of the starship is done with the heart and the head (it is a unit). The rhythm of the cosmos gives the driving force to come to earth. This is done in full alignment. It is a repeating buzz, resonating through you. You might encounter it in dreams. The love in which this takes place is infinite.

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    How does a Starchild Incarnate?

    When a starchild is near earth, the soul chooses its path and leaves the ship. Many starchildren on earth remember this. The transition from the starship to earth is a big one. The escort of the ship to earth is done with great care. It is sometimes very difficult to come from infinite love to a place where there is the illusion that there is duality.

    starchildren incarnate without Karma; they have no more lessons to learn. All starchildren need to remember is their own source of unconditional love, for all lessons are already stored there.

    Problems of StarChildren

    Starchildren are often very intuitive and have the ability to perceive feelings / emotions of people, animals and the environment. Apart from time and space, these children can also sense which events have taken place and which are yet to take place. At first these sightings can be very frustrating, because Starchildren are not yet able to change them.

    The sensitivity of starchildren is very great. They feel fears, sadness from others (including animals) and cannot separate the difference between the feelings of others and themselves in their young years and as adults if they are not guided in this. Because of this, starchildren can be very insecure.

    Starchildren are children / adults with a very high wisdom and unconditional love for the environment. For the sake of convenience, this is referred to as a high vibration. Their challenge lies in letting the unconditional love they have for others flow for themselves as well.

    These children are often advised to connect better with the earth, but these children do not benefit from such grounding exercises that are already available on the internet, because they do not fit their consciousness. They can recharge and come to themselves by tuning in to unity.

    Starchildren feel in the connection with others the projection of the karma that the other still has to solve. This often gives starchildren the feeling that they are not wanted, because starchildren feel that the other does not fully accept themselves. The confusion of the other person’s feelings often makes starchildren feel rejected. You often see that these children struggle to escape from this illusion. Ascended Master Buddha can help with that.

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    Starchild features

    Do you recognize the following properties?

    • Are you intuitive?
    • Are you  highly sensitive?
    • Can you easily experience peace?
    • Do you have compassion for people, even though they have wronged you?
    • Do you like looking at the stars?
    • Do you like to traveling in the field of stars in meditations and do you feel recognition?
    • Do you feel one with others?
    • Do you feel a strong connection to the earth?

    Then there is a great possibility that you are a starchild!

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    Short Channeling for a Star child:

    “Dear starchild. You have come here on earth to help with the problems that are on the planet. Feel supported by us; you are here out of love so that you can lead the way for others to live out of love.”

    Starchildren and meditation

    Starchildren do not need to learn to meditate. They can do this naturally. They just need to remember how to do this. This can be done, for example, in a course. Sometimes blockages have built up and need to be unblocked first. After that, a starChild can meditate on their own if they feel the need. In a meditation they can relax or connect with the knowledge and wisdom they need.

    Do you want to know more about Starchildren?

    Contact Mathijs via this contact form.

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  • Types of highly sensitive person: are you a High Sensation Seeker (HSS) or Tranquility Seeker?

    Types of highly sensitive person: are you a High Sensation Seeker (HSS) or Tranquility Seeker?

    There are several types of highly sensitive persons (HSP). HSP types are various manifestations or different forms of high sensitivity. Are you highly sensitive and curious which type you are; a HSS (high sensation seeker) / thrill seeker or tranquility seeker ? Discover in this blog what it exactly means, how to test it and what it can do for you!

    High sensitivity and balance

    Approximately 15-20% of the population is a highly sensitive person (HSP) and recognizes themselves in these highly sensitive person traits. If you are a HSP, stimuli can come in intensely and your nervous system can become overstimulated. This can make you suffer from  fatigue, among other things.

    HSP often find it difficult to find a balance between making time for themselves (and their inner world) and the outside world; this can cost energy. You can learn how to best organize your time and be productive!

    Why do HSPs handle their sensitivity differently?

    HSP deal with their high sensitivity in a diverse way. This is related to their personality. A personality includes the physical, emotional and mental aspect of someone. Your personality is partly formed by an innate part (your genes and nervous system) and what you have learned.

    Two types of highly sensitive persons

    Basically you can distinguish two types of highly sensitive personalities, in random order:

    1. Thrill/sensation seekers , approximately 25 % of the HSP falls under this. These are also called High Sensation Seekers, abbreviated to HSP HSS type.
    2. Tranquility/Rest seekers, approximately 75% of the HSP falls under this. Some people call this type HSP: that is a misunderstanding. A HSP can also be the HSS type mentioned above.

    You can often recognize something in yourself of both types. One type often has the upper hand. See below some qualities and pitfalls of both types, these can vary per person!

    Type 1: HSP HSS type

    HSP HSS Types are also referred to as Thrill or Sensation Seekers. Sensation Seeking means that you consciously seek out sensations, stimuli or impressions . You can be strong willed.

    Compared to a thrill seeker of average sensitivity, a HSP of this type tends to be more aware of details and interested in them.

    Compared to a Tranquility Seeker type, you are a bit more extroverted, more focused on the outside world and look for new and intense experiences. You like excitement and adventure and are willing to take a lot of risk (financially, socially, physically and legally). In general, this type makes itself heard more than the Tranquility Seeker. You love contact with people, but this can also exhaust you if you have not yet mastered your high sensitivity.

    A problem that this type can experience is that you are often overstimulated, but you also quickly get tired of things. You can bustle with ideas and get a full head. You regularly need a challenge and incentives (because otherwise you will find life boring), but also peace and sometimes seclusion. This can sometimes be confusing for yourself or others.

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    Type 2: HSP tranquility seeker type

    Compared to a Tranquility Seeker with an average sensitivity, this type of HSP is often more aware of themselves and others. This HSP is calm and contemplative, likes an orderly and regular life and acts less impulsively than a Sensation Seeker. He/she does not like risks of crowds.

    Maybe you sometimes prefer to avoid social events and prefer a 1 on 1 conversation? This image fits more with the HSP stereotype. These HSPs are often found introverted. It is usually thought that introverts close themselves off from worldly matters, but HSP are busy with this a lot!

    A problem that this type may experience is that you can become overwhelmed with feelings and worries, withdraw and may feel lonely at times , or suffer from shyness.

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    Tips for highly sensitive persons:

    1. What do you recognize from both types and which type has the upper hand? Get insight into what kind of HSP type you are. For example, take a HSP type test (Femke shares this test in her guidance).
    2. Use the qualities and do activities that belong to your type. So that you get energy from your HSP type, instead of being bothered by it.
    3. Learn to manage and master your high sensitivity so that it works to your advantage (instead of disadvantage). Especially if you are an HSS type, learning to limit is important.

    What kind of type of HSP are you?/HSP HSS Test

    Not sure if you are a HSP, or what type of HSP you are? Or have you just discovered that you are highly sensitive and do you have an idea what kind of HSP type you are, but do you not know what you can do with this concretely and how you can reap the benefits of this? You are welcome to contact us.

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  • Are you an old soul? 15 signs

    Are you an old soul? 15 signs

    An old soul is a soul with a relatively large consciousness . Often such a soul has often been on earth and such a soul has gained a lot of life experience .

    A young or new soul often means a soul that has been on earth little and has gained little life experience. Such a soul can have a somewhat more limited or more ‘narrowed’ consciousness compared to an older soul.

    In practice, there are many misunderstandings about what an old soul exactly is. Old and new are relative ‘earthly’ concepts and can only be compared in each other’s context. Consciousness can be developed in many ways. For example, in some cases a soul may have developed its consciousness, by incarnating a lot on other planets and/or other galaxies and cosmoses and thus gaining experience, and incarnating little on earth. Such a soul can be called an old soul.

    Old soul in child

    Furthermore, it is a misunderstanding that the age of a soul is always linked to the age of a physical body. Someone with a body of 3 years can have an older soul compared to someone with a body of 83 years. This is sometimes also described as an old soul in the body of a baby or child. Often babies and children with an old soul are called New Age Child .

    Recognize old soul

    There are various characteristics by which you can recognize an old soul, these are also called old soul characteristics. Old souls can:

    1. Be highly sensitive and recognize themselves in these highly sensitive person traits.
    2. Have a strong intuition .
    3. Have an interest in psychic qualities and be psychic .
    4. Like depth (also in terms of relationships) and spirituality . For example, you like to gain knowledge in that area.
    5. Not so much value matter, but value more spiritual things like the soul. You may feel no age, or older than your age. Perhaps you had wise sayings as a child.
    6. Want to live from inspiration and love (instead of fear: they are often not afraid of death ). You oversee a ‘bigger picture’ and feel that everything is connected.
    7. Engage in personal development and consciousness development.
    8. Have memories of past lives; you may be drawn to specific times or countries.
    9. Love helping or advising others and listening to others; others often know where to find them in that area. If an old soul is not in balance, they can become ‘drained’ by others.
    10. Be idealistic.
    11. Feel connected to nature.
    12. Feel like they come from other dimensions. Maybe Earth doesn’t feel like your “home”; when an old soul is out of balance, it can feel homesick for the dimensions it came from.
    13. Feel like they are not their body.
    14. Like to be alone and/or do things alone. An old soul can also feel lonely or an ‘odd person’ if it is not balanced .
    15. Hold honesty in high esteem. They can happen instantly.
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    Old soul test

    There is no scientifically proven test to find out whether you have an old soul or a young soul. You can feel this yourself, for example on the basis of the above characteristics. This requires strong intuition and being honest with yourself. People are sometimes wrongly labeled as ‘ young ‘ by others.

    Some highly sensitive people can also recognize an old soul by someone’s eyes . These eyes seem to penetrate you or look ‘right through you’.

    Do you want to know more?

    In our help we teach you how to balance your old soul. Please contact us about this.

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  • Holistic view: what is this and how can it help you as a HSP?

    Holistic view: what is this and how can it help you as a HSP?

    What is holism and a holistic point of view?

    The word ‘holism’ comes from the Greek word ‘holon’ which means ‘whole’. A synonym of holism is comprehensive. Holism is a philosophy, vision of life or belief. It is assumed that everything is connected.

    For example, consider a connection between:

    • Physical things, such as your body and what and how you eat.
    • Emotions
    • Thoughts
    • Subtle dimensions that surround and penetrate you, such as your soul

    This vision of life is becoming more and more known in this time, which is also called new age . In this New Era, connection and living from a sense of unity, instead of separation and rationality, are central. The opposite of holism is dualism and reductionism, where parts such as the body and mind are considered separately from each other.

    Holism research

    Quantum physics scientists also recognize that everything is energy, and that everything is connected. More information can be found at The Scientific medical network.

    How can a holistic view and a holistic approach look like? Holistic examples:

    1. An example of how eating (a physical factor) can affect your emotions and thoughts:

    • What does the ingredient look like? The color, structure, smell and nutrients (such as sugar and fat) affect your entire system. For example, too much sugar can lead to depressed feels.
    • Are the ingredients you eat organic or ecological? Or have they been sprayed and do they contain relatively many toxins? This may have a different impact on your system.
    • Is the food made according to a certain philosophy? For example, is it fair trade, vegetarian or vegan, or do you consciously use herbs to aid digestion? Or do employees have a bad feeling while making the product? The intention with which things are made can penetrate your body, emotions and thoughts through food. Especially highly sensitive persons are (unconsciously) extra open to this and are extra sensitive to this. Emoto also tells more about this.
    • Is the food prepared in a specific way, such as in the skillet or oven? Or is it heated in the microwave?

    2. An example of how thoughts can affect your body:
    Conversely, if you spend the whole day stressful and have stressed thoughts in your head, your body will naturally feel stressed and tense. Meditating helps to relax your body.

    How does a holistic person lives?

    Someone who wants to live a holistic life is aware that everything is connected. Such a person will, for example, consciously separate waste and consciously eat healthy, in order to support not only themselves but also the environment and animals. What is healthy for someone and how much sugar someone needs, for example, varies from person to person. Muscle testing or kinesiology can help with this.

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    Holistic treatment

    There are all kind of holistic treatments. How a treatment exactly looks likes, depends on the specialization of a holistic professional. These are some examples:

    Holism in health care

    In recent years it has been increasingly seen that the body cannot be separated from the mind, but that they work together. In health care, holism is best known as alternative or complementary care. These are also sometimes called Complementary and Alternative Medicines (CAG). Various professionals such as psychologists can have a holistic view. This is often stated on their website.

    Holistic psychologist

    A holistic psychologist recognizes that everything is connected. A holistic psychologist has a holistic vision; how exactly this vision manifests itself can vary from person to person.

    For example, with my background as an Applied Psychologist, I have a holistic vision and the inputs that;

    • Your body, emotions and thoughts work together.
    • Every person is complete and a person is more than his body, thoughts and feelings. I perceive that you have your body, emotions and thoughts, but you are not your body, emotions and thoughts. I recognize a spiritual core in every being.
    • Thoughts make things ‘right’ or ‘wrong’.
    • One behavior is more effective than the other, depending on the situation.
    • Each is responsible for himself.
    • There is ‘more’ between heaven and earth; this is how I perceive subtle loving energies and beings of light (resonating with Ascended Masters)..
    • Reincarnation and other times (such as past lives) exist.

    A holistic psychologist or someone with such a background is suitable for people who also have a holistic vision.

    Holistic healing

    There may be a discrepancy taking place in someone’s life; for example, there may be a complaint or illness. Energetic Holistic Healing can support this.

    Do you want to know more/can we help you?

    Mathijs can learn you how you can give yourself and others an energetic holistic healing via Primordial Light Healing. Do you want to know more about this? Please contact us.

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  • Are you a lightworker? About the meaning & gifts

    Are you a lightworker? About the meaning & gifts

    A lightworker is a person who lives from light and unconditional love and shares it. The consciousness on earth can thus be expanded to an even more loving and ‘spacious’ consciousness. This loving energy is also associated with the Aquarian Age and the New Age. A lightworker can therefore sometimes also be called New Age Child or human.

    The term lightworker implies that there are also ‘darkworkers’. Although there may be people creating from an intention that is not light (from love) but dark (from fear), our core is always love. Anyone can become/be a lightworker.

    Lightworker gifts and characteristics

    Below are some characteristics that may belong to a lightworker; these may vary from person to person.
    You:

    • Feel drawn to spirituality and other ‘non-earthly’ dimensions.
    • Have an interest in light beings (like Ascended Masters)
    • May have psychic perceptions.
    • Like to act from intuition (rather than reason).
    • May have had past lives related to spirituality and/or religion. For example: lives at the time of ancient civilisations such as Ancient Egypt, the Mayans or Atlantis and/or lives as a ‘witch’, priest(s), or nun/monk or lives on other planets/in other cosmoses. If a previous life in which spirituality/religion was central to ended (e.g. due to persecution) and energetically is not yet well-rounded, there may be fear in the present life of working with/coming out for spiritual matters.
    • Can be highly sensitive and recognise yourself in these highly sensitive persons traits such as: being idealistic, empathising well with another person and being sensitive to stimuli. If you have not yet mastered your high sensitivity, you may take over another person’s energy, lose yourself in helping others (and take yourself away) or not have both feet on the ground. HSP may then isolate themselves.
    • Love animals and nature.
    • Want to be of service and help others. Possibly likes alternative care, such as healing.
    • Feel ‘different’.
    • Do things individually.
    • Have an old soul.
    • Don’t like authority, especially Indigo people have this.

    If a lightworker is not yet balanced, this can lead to feelings of misunderstanding and not feeling recognised, loneliness, insecurity or depression, among others.

    “Am I a lightworker?” Can you test if you work with light?

    There is no science-based test to examine whether you are a lightworker. Essentially, anyone can be a lightworker, if you choose to. You will then recognise yourself in the above lightworker characteristics.

    Lightworker training

    Life itself offers you ‘training’ to be a lightworker. Other people you meet on earth can help you with this (unsolicited and solicited). Just think of some earthly trainings or courses that support the process on a professional level to work even more consciously from light. You can strengthen and share your light this way. This may be called a ‘Lightworker Training’ or something similar, but it could also be, for example, a course in which you learn to work with energetic tools so you can let your light shine further, or a course in which you learn to master your high sensitivity.

    Tip:

    Discover who you essentially are and what your qualities are. Let your light shine. This gives energy!

    Do you want to know more/can we help you?

    You are welcome to contact us.

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  • What is the meaning of intuition & how can you develop and trust it?

    What is the meaning of intuition & how can you develop and trust it?

    The word intuition comes from the Latin word ‘intueor’. This means ‘to contemplate, stare at or watch intently’. It is a way of perceiving: you can perceive something directly inwardly, without previous experience or reasoning. A synonym is a ‘hunch’, ‘gut feeling’ or ‘sixth sense’.

    Female intuition vs men’s intuition

    Sometimes people talk about female/feminine intuition, implying that there is also such a thing as a male variant. However: both men and women can perceive in this way. What is masculine and feminine is culture-specific.

    • Often intuition, like high sensitivity, is labelled as ‘soft’ or ‘feminine’ in Western Society. Especially many men are afraid of being labelled too soft or as ‘weak’. Therefore, they often suppress it. Suppressing who you are can (unconsciously) take a lot of energy and make you unhappy.
    • In Asia, highly sensitive and intuitive qualities are often more valued compared to the West.

    Slowly, this is also changing in Western society. This is related to the Aquarius era.

    Follow your intuition!

    You can use intuitive qualities for yourself, and also use it to help others:

    • Intuitive observations can be used as a compass: for instance, it can help you make choices that support you.
    • Intuitive observations can also give insight into what others (people or animals) need.
    • Wrong decisions or misunderstandings can be avoided with intuitive observations.
    • Listen to your intuitive observations helps you to feel good about yourself and to flourish, and to help other persons to flourish too.
    • Besides, you can do all kinds of other things with your intuitive observations, both in your private life (for example via intuitive drawing or painting) or work life (for instance during coaching). If you listen to your intuitive observations, this is sometimes referred to as ‘effective intuition’.

    Inn Saei – the power of intuition

    Many people live from their ratio/minds. But there is more than that: intuition! This Icelandic documentary Inn Saei explores it further and inspires you to listen to it.

    Watch the trailer here:

    I watched this documentary via Netflix.

    Intuition test

    Put 5 people next to each other and have them look at a painting, and they are likely to see different things. This is because everyone perceives in a unique way. The same applies to intuition; it is unique to each person.

    There are tests such as the Zenner test, where you can examine whether your intuition indicates which picture will follow. The ‘danger’ of these kinds of tests is that people can get ‘bogged down’ in the results. Some people may have a very strong intuition, but not on a ‘predictive image level’. Perhaps they are very good at sensing births, or ‘knowing’ what to say in a negotiation meeting. If such a test gives a ‘negative’ result, it doesn’t mean you don’t have strong intuition.

    You are the only one who can test whether your intuition is correct! For example, do you dream something that comes true later, have a premonition that it will rain within half an hour and this happens? Then see this as your ‘test’ and ‘evidence’.

    Intuition and high sensitivity

    Highly sensitive people (HSP) are extra open to stimuli. They often (unconsciously) already have strong intuition. If they do not master their high sensitivity well, they will usually not notice this. Impressions and stimuli can then get so mixed up that they get a full mind and notice few intuitive perceptions.

    Types of intuition

    Intuition is a perception; it can be a feeling but also, for example, an image. This can be very confusing, as intuitive feelings are quite often confused with emotions. Especially with highly sensitive people who have not yet mastered their high sensitivity, this can be the case. Perceptions of yourself and another person, and from the present, past and future can get mixed up. Therefore, learn to distinguish between wishful thinking, undermining negative thoughts and your intuition.

    Developing and trusting your intuition

    Like other skills, you can develop your intuition. In some people, this is already a highly developed quality by nature, in which case they are often referred to as having a strong intuition. Compare it to Mozart: he already naturally had a strong musical quality, which he developed further. By practising a lot, he reaped many rewards from this.

    So it is also the case with intuition. The more you develop this and learn to trust it, the more intuitive perceptions you will have. There are various ways how you can develop it. For example, some people do this by meditating. Either way, follow your gut if you want to find a way to develop it!

    Specifically for highly-sensitive people, it is important that they master their sensitivity so that they don’t get lost in stimuli around them. When you master your sensitivty, you can also distinguish perfectly what is your own or someone else’s energy, for example in terms of emotion. Intuitive impressions become clearer and stronger. It is then easier to develop it.

    Psychic intuition

    If intuition is developed very strongly, you can have paranormal perceptions. In the dutch Flair magazine, for example, I share more about my paranormal perceptions.

    Flair interviews Femke de Grijs obout high sensitivity

    Do you want to know more?

    WeI teach you more about this topic and how to strengthen it so that you can benefit from it. You are welcome to contact us.

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  • 25 examples of paranormal activity & signs that you are psychic

    25 examples of paranormal activity & signs that you are psychic

    Have you ever had it: an experience that could not yet be explained scientifically such as seeing colours around people, or a premonition that later turned out to come true? Worldwide, this happens often. It could be related to paranormality.

    Paranormal activity

    Paranormal means ‘beyond the normal‘. Paranormal activity/experiences are also seen as ‘supernatural’: they involve acknowledging that there is more between heaven and earth.

    Paranormal phenomena are often seen as something ‘vague’ or alternative in the rational, down-to-earth West. After all, it cannot yet be scientifically proven. Something many people crave: after all, science provides ‘certainty’. The reality is, however, that scientific knowledge is growing and science is often behind the times: for example, the earth was long thought to be flat.

    Taboo

    Many people apply the ‘when it is not scientifically proven, it does not excist’ principle. Observations that are not so ‘standard’ or ‘normal’ are often brushed aside as ‘nonsense’. Many people who observe paranormal phenomena do not dare to talk about them because they feel they are not accepted:

    • Perhaps you are afraid that others will find you ‘different’ or weird and you are ashamed of your impressions?
    • Maybe you suppress it (e.g. because your environment has a religion that disapproves of paranormal perceptions)?

    Especially highly sensitive persons who have not yet mastered their high-sensitivity can be extra sensitive to the (unspoken) opinions/expectations of others and the ‘taboo atmosphere’ surrounding this topic. Especially if you are ‘living’ in your head a lot and are realistic by nature, paranormal perception can be challenging. Do you fret about whether or not to show your paranormality to the outside world? This can make you tired.

    Paranormal stories

    Fortunately, more and more about paranormal activity is slowly being shared in the media. ‘True’ or not ‘true’ (sometimes it involves magic tricks and entertainment); the fact remains that more attention is being paid to this subject.

    For instance, I talked about my paranormal observations in the dutch Magazines: Viva magazine, Vriendin, the Dutch magazine Flair and Belgian magazine Flair.

    Crazy Wise

    If you hear voices, have lucid dreams or visions or other paranormal perceptions, this is often labelled ‘crazy’ from Western culture (sometimes people are given all kinds of diagnoses such as depression). This is in contrast to other cultures.

    The film CrazyWise delves into this. Although I found the film very intense and confrontational, it is an absolute must-see if you are highly sensitive and you suffer from your sensitivity.. This is the film’s trailer:

    25 signs that you have psychic abilities

    Here are some examples of signs that may come with being paranormal. Just as painters and their talents are unique, paranormal gifts also vary from person to person.

    Psychic power

    What is a psychic gift?

    A gift (sometimes seen as a gift from the Cosmos or Source), is also called a quality or talent; there is aptitude to develop it further. If you master your psychic gift you can recognize yourself in these phenomena:

    Paranormal phenomenon 1. You hear sounds that others do not hear

    Paranormal phenomenon 2. You feel energy fields or auras
    You perceive colours in people or animals, for example.

    Paranormal phenomenon 3. You get information from an object
    For example you can receive information about the owner of the object.

    Psychic phenomenon 4. You have insight into the past and past lives

    Paranormal phenomenon 5. You have insight into parallel lives
    These are events that happen simultaneously (parallel) to your life. You may experience that you are in different places at the same time.

    Paranormal phenomenon 6. You have insight into the future and can predict things
    Perhaps you perceive that a soul chooses its parents and wants to be born, what an unborn child wants to be called, or when/how a child will be born.

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    Paranormal phenomenon 7. You see ghosts like faces or phantoms or perhaps altogether.
    There are different definitions of what exactly ghosts are. These can be deceased people you know, but also strangers. These are sometimes called entities. Usually, entities are known because people have unpleasant experiences with them in specific places (such as in the home). Perhaps you have felt someone bending over you or moving a specific part of your body.

    Paranormal phenomenon 8. You feel light beings, ascended masters, guides or help ‘from above’
    This can also be from other galaxies or cosmoses. Perhaps a spiritual guide or guardian angel feels like a special friend no one else can see.

    Psychic dream

    Paranormal phenomenon 9. You have dreams in which guides or people give you clear messages
    Perhaps during your dreams you gain insight into ‘why you are here on earth, what choices strengthen you and your soul or why you experience things (e.g. because they are based on unfinished past lives).

    Paranormal phenomenon 10. You are aware of out of body experiences
    Your body is present on earth, but your consciousness somewhere else. For example, you are lying in bed and you are stepping out with your consciousness into the dream dimension or another country. Perhaps you feel like you are flying.

    Paranormal phenomenon 11. You know what the other person is thinking
    For example, you can sense an animal well and make telepathic contact with it (‘talking’ through the air), or see pain. This goes even further than thinking of someone and that person calling you: you know the other person is calling!

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    Paranormal phenomenon 12. You can move objects with your thoughts
    This is also known as telekinesis.

    Paranormal phenomenon 13. You can ‘channel
    Or to be a channel of unconditional love. Maybe you do automatic writing to pass on messages from loving light beings, for example.

    Paranormal phenomenon 14. You enjoy working with energy in more ‘alternative ways’
    For example, through gemstones or oracle cards.

    If you have not yet mastered your paranormal gift, you may recognize yourself in these phenomena:

    Paranormal phenomenon 15. You experience (intense) sounds or voices that others do not hear.

    Paranormal phenomenon 16. You have unexplainable emotions (such as fear), thoughts or certain behaviour.
    These may have originated in other times (past lives, parallel lives or future lives).

    Paranormal phenomenon 17. You take things ‘over’
    Maybe you get sick of a certain room containing negative energy (e.g. because there has been an argument), or you take over another person’s pain or loaded emotions.

    Paranormal phenomenon 18. You have difficulty distinguishing what is your own or another’s energy
    For example, in terms of thoughts, emotions or physical pain and times (past lives, present and future).

    Paranormal phenomenon 19. You get tired of other people’s pain

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    Paranormal phenomenon 20. You are afraid of what you perceive
    For example, you are afraid of ghosts. You feel that your body, emotions or thoughts are being pushed/moved in a certain direction without your control.

    Paranormal phenomenon 21. You don’t allow your paranormality
    Maybe you suppress it and you ask yourself what you want/can or ‘should’ do with it.

    Paranormal phenomenon 22. You do not feel supported

    Paranormal phenomenon 23. You have no control over your sleep/dreams
    Perhaps you feel you have no control over your sleep and dreams. Perhaps you have intensely confusing dreams and/or nightmares? Or maybe you suffer from sleep paralysis? This means that although you are conscious (and in that sense awake), your body is asleep. Your body is not doing what your mind wants: waking up, opening your eyes and stretching or moving yourself. This can sometimes feel like you have ‘stepped out’ and cannot ‘fall back’ into your body. Because you have no control over your body and may feel like you are ‘trapped’ in your body, this can lead to panic or anxiety.

    Paranormal phenomenon 24. You are afraid of others’ opinions
    It bothers you that others think you can ‘see through them’.

    Paranormal phenomenon 25. You feel that you have lost yourself

    Psychic testing

    There are various tests to investigate whether you are paranormal such as the Zenner test. The ‘problem’ with these tests is that they often highlight one aspect (in the case of the Zenner test: perceiving an aspect of the future) and are often done by people who have not yet mastered their gift. A test may reveal that you do not have a psychic gift, even though you have this predisposition.

    Paranormal therapist

    There are all kinds of people who consciously work in a paranormal way such as at a paranormal fair. For example: a paranormal therapist (and paranormal therapy), paranormal healer and paranormal medium.

    There are also relatively many people who work with their psychic gift, but (un)consciously do not name it as such. This is usually because they are afraid of what those around them might think of their paranormality, or out of modesty.

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    Do you have paranormal gifts? 8 tips:

    Tip 1. In case of complaints: consult a doctor too

    Choose a doctor you feel comfortable with (e.g. one with a holistic point of view).

    Tip 2. Investigate whether you are psychic

    You can do this by feeling about this or by asking for our help.

    Tip 3. Acknowledge your paranormality

    Are you paranormal? Acknowledge it: it is a part of you! Another does not have to accept you; accept yourself.

    Tip 4. Get closer to yourself and stay in your own energy

    Learn to protect yourself properly, so negative energy does not have an impact on you.

    Tip 5. Cleanse negative energy

    For example, cleanse negative energy in your home and in yourself. Learn to transform fear.

    Tip 6. Learn to let go of perfectionism and insecurity

    Tip 7. Let your (psychic) dreams work for you

    Do you suffer from sleep paralysis/(psychic) nightmares? Discover the cause (and why it happens) and remove the cause. Learn to direct your dreams, this can be done through lucid dreaming. Do you suffer from sleep paralysis? Femke can help you with this.

    Tip 8. Develop your paranormal gift

    You can develop your paranormal gift for example with the help of light beings. Making your gift work for you gives you energy. With your paranormal gift you can also do wonderful things for the world around you and make the world more beautiful, in your unique way. Show yourself!

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  • Are you an introvert? About the meaning and traits

    Are you an introvert? About the meaning and traits

    Being an introvert, what exactly is it? Find out in this blog and also how to turn this into a strength as a Highly Sensitive Person, with inspiration from Susan Cain!

    Introvert meaning

    According to the dutch dictionary ‘Van Dale‘, introvert is “introverted” and “not very talkative”. The opposite of introvert is extrovert.

    Every person has both sides in them. You often recognise yourself either more in introverted behaviour, or more in extroverted behaviour, sometimes both.

    Introvert traits

    Introversion can express itself in thoughts (and how you make decisions), feelings and behaviour (such as how you deal with stimuli and communicate). An introvert may recognise themselves in these traits:

    Behaviour of an introvert

    Introverted behaviour consists mainly of Yin energy: that which we often call ‘feminine’ in our Western society:

    • You like to be in the background, rather than in the foreground.
    • You act quietly; for example, you don’t want to share what you are working on until it is finished.

    Introverted thinking

    • You contemplate, e.g. before you say something.
    • You can observe well.
    • You can be very focused.
    • You can be creative, you have creative ideas, for example.

    Relationship with yourself/others as an introvert:

    • You like to be alone.
    • You like to do things alone or with one other person together.
    • You go for quality rather than quantity in terms of friendships: you prefer to have a few good friends, rather than many ‘half’ ones.
    • You prefer talking one-on-one rather than in a large group.
    • You like in-depth conversions (rather than smalltalk).
    • You are a good listener.
    • You like to express yourself in writing, rather than verbally/telephonically.

    Hypersensitivity

    About 1 in 5 people is a highly sensitive person (HSP) and recognise themselves in these HSP characteristics. Basically, there are 2 different HSP types;

    • the HSP ‘peace-seeker’, who behaves more introverted.
    • The HSP Sensation Seeker, also called High Sensation Seeker (HSS), who behaves more extroverted. An HSS likes to seek out many stimuli in the outside world more. This behaviour consists mainly of Yang energy: that which we often call ‘masculine’ in our society.

    Introvert or extravert

    Besides the HSP peace seeker and sensation seeker, there are also non-highly sensitive people, who are introverted or extroverted.

    Quiet – the power over introverts (Susan Cain)

    In this Ted Talk, Susan Cain talks about introversion and the qualities of introverted behaviour. Tip: use these qualities, they give energy!

    Susan Cain wrote the book Quiet The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking (for adults).

    Quiet The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking - Susan Cain

    She also wrote the book Quiet power- the secret strenghts of introverts for kids.

    Quiet Power The Secret Strengths of Introverts - Susan Cain

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    Suffering from introversion and fatigue? Tip:

    Are you highly sensitive and introverted?

    Learn to manage your high sensitivity and use it as a strength and to stay in tune with yourself and your own energy. That way, you will no longer suffer from introversion, conflicts and fatigue.

    Do you need some help?

    Please contact us.

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  • Are you spiritual? Everything you need to know about it!

    Are you spiritual? Everything you need to know about it!

    Spirituality is derived from the Latin word ‘spirit’ meaning ‘mind’. Central to this is becoming and being aware with your mind (thoughts) of yourself (and, for example, your meaning, motivation and qualities) and what gives meaning to your life.

    With your mind you can cooperate with your soul, core or true self, which has its origin in another (not earthly) dimension. Some people experience this “other” dimension as divine. Someone who lives spiritually acknowledges that there is more between heaven and earth.

    Spirituality involves living a soulful life; this includes living from unconditional love.

    Developing spirituality

    Spirituality is a personal experience. Supernatural powers can be experienced, such as in near-death experiences, paranormal observations, intuitive experiences, and the perception of light beings.

    There are many ways to live spiritually and to develop spirituality. Which way suits a person is very personal. For example, many people meditate, or enjoy silence to experience their spirit and themselves.

    You can also reflect on life questions such as ‘why am I here on earth?’ and ‘what is my purpose on earth?’ and reflect on thoughts, feelings, and experiences. These pursuits are nourishing for the mind (spirit) and Yourself, just as food and drink are nourishing for the body. In any case, choose something that makes you happy and feels good, even if it is just doing the dishes or going for a walk!

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    Spirituality test

    Everyone is spiritual; after all, everyone has a spirit. However, not everyone lives spiritually. There is no scientifically validated test to examine whether and to what extent you live spiritually.

    You can ask yourself:

    • To what extent do I experience purpose, fulfillment and inspiration in my life?
    • To what extent am I aware of my motivation?
    • To what extent am I aware of my qualities?
    • To what extent am I honest, for example, about my wishes?
    • To what extent do I contemplate life questions such as: who am I, where do I come from, and what is my purpose on earth?
    • To what extent do I experience that there is more between heaven and earth?
    • To what extent do I experience Myself?
    • To what extent do I live from unconditional love?
    • To what extent do I experience self-confidence?
    • To what extent do I experience abundance?
    • To what extent am I in service to myself and others?

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    Spirituality is not:

    • Being dishonest and suppressing your desires
    • Being positive and ignoring negative things
    • Pretending everything is love
    • Only thinking of yourself

    Misconception about spirituality

    It is a misconception that spirituality always relates to religion and ‘faith’ and that it is airy-fairy. Spirituality can also be practiced with religion and means standing firmly with both feet on the ground.

    Spiritual guidance

    Spiritual guidance usually refers to guidance from subtle dimensions, such as from Ascended Masters.

    Spiritual help

    Various professionals offer spiritual help, for example a:

    • Spiritual medium
    • Spiritual reader (who can offer a spiritual reading)
    • Spiritual advisor
    • Spiritual therapist
    • Spiritual director
    • Spiritual teacher
    • Spiritual entrepeneur

    The way spiritual professionals offer varies. For example, there may be offered:

    • Spiritual counseling
    • Spiritual cleansing
    • Spiritual coaching/spiritual life coaching
    • Spiritual rituals

    Spiritual healing

    Another way help can be offered is through spiritual healing. Click here to discover  what this entails and how it can help you further.

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